My best friend recently broke up with her boyfriend. I was shocked, a few minutes gave me better understand why a couple so beautiful and strong (have been together for over four years) split up? It seems that the reasons are varied, but I already outlined 10. And you learn what they are!
hearing from a failure to love life and try to be optimistic because we
tell the person "was not to be" and should "get over". But we forget to mention why their relationship ended.
we want what's best for our loved ones, but sometimes it is best to
help them understand what wrong and what to avoid in future
I have outlined 10 issues, you know and others do not hesitate to write on forums or email the editorial staff.
Mayra's top 10 reasons why couples break up ideal:
1. Lack of confidence
Often we see as our friends of arguing that one of them does not trust his half. Trust is one of the key points of a relationship, and often the largest problem.
2. Attraction without another
must recognize that we are subject to error and that we, as well as
representatives of the opposite sex, we tend to commit a mistake in May.
Problems arise when there is an attraction to a third party but the individual is not willing to give up that relationship is.
3. Violent relationships
Excessive jealousy born monsters! And women who receive blows and insults of starting a relationship failed. Fortunately, many abused women fail to release and let go of a relationship that makes them bad.
4. Lack of interest
There are moments where you understand your partner stop looking at all, no sex and no emotional! But although you understand it's hard to take action. The best thing would be to give the relationship because the path is a dangerous walk.
5. There is a common future
Generally couples only last you for wanting to have experienced not a common future. Therefore it is well established that will be for your relationship before creating misunderstandings.
6. Lack of time
Job, education or family can make you lose precious time that we gave earlier partner. It is time to determine if the relationship means something to you, and it's worth to save her or not, and then you can skip it.
7. Torque problems
Life in two is not as simple as a present from Hollywood movies. So it's not long before serious problems that need to face and you have to be prepared emotionally.
Yes, infidelity remains one of the main reasons why couples break up. It's understandable that nobody wants to be used and does not want to suffer for the sake of love.
9. Lack of appreciation
If one partner does not respect and do not appreciate the work of the other, then problems will certainly appear. Try to analyze the behavior of the other before move in relationship.
After a long relationship, separation from the other will be very difficult. They even give you a few times just because you feel sorry for the other. Take care ... love is not miles!