It is a good topic of splitting hairs, dear reader. As we know, girls, opinions are divided because we live in a society where you hardly find real friends, people trust that you can rely on.
times, we know the classic story about "best friend", the happy and
unhappy cases, but to see how it goes with "best friend" or friends in
women find that the friendship between a man and a woman can not exist
due to differences in mentality, the divergence, the feeling that they
are misunderstood by men and then prefer to make friends with each
other, thinking they are on the same frequency. Unfortunately,
we know that you can not trust anyone and it's difficult to tie a
lasting friendship with someone, whether it is male or female.
Why is it so difficult for a woman to tie a friendship with a man today? Because
there is a bias related to sex, some well-founded, but men who are
trained without hidden intentions, sincere, open and amicele who see
them as sisters are reluctant to women because they wake up with
surprises like "You're
like a sister to me / You're my best friend, how to make love with me?"
and slowly, slowly, there is a distancing between the two sides because
sometimes in so-called friends can sometimes physical attraction, love and other factors.
psychologist said, once, that there can be no friendship between a man
and a woman only in exceptional cases, if both are formal, they are not
alone (everyone has someone) and not harbor hidden feelings for each
when you have a friend, a good friend for years, although we see
formal, like a brother, without dreaming of his love, without being
attracted to him, you have the guarantee that his head is nothing. A
friendship with a man you will ever question whether he looks at you
formally, as a sister or if you like, even if your friendship is sincere
and does not imply something more. It
does not hurt to pay attention to his behavior, to see if it's honest
with you, but can be in love with you for years and not know, because
well hide some of this fear of destroying the friendship that formed over time or other reasons.
you have a friendship with a man, it matters how you are as people, the
mentality you have, if you both to keep this line about formality,
without off-route. For
example, you can be friends with some of your friends life partner, if
you know them both well enough to know that they would not think they
have a chance with you, understand what they say. You
can be friends and co-workers around whom you feel safe and if you know
the character and know exactly what kind of person, but, again, you can
never put hand in fire for the man with whom you have a friendship link
strictly formal terms, not to want certain things.
Friendship has many meanings today. Most
times, when a girl says: "He's my friend", this simple phrase can be
interpreted in several ways, as well as a guy who simply presents his
other pal, saying: "This is my friend" and others wonder if there's something between them. Friendship
may be at a deep level even with your partner, that he, along with that
you loved, and be your best friend, the man who is beside you always.
I will show another level of friendship between a man and a woman, will
give you a quotation as an example proving that friendship is
associated with love:
"Friendship is one soul in two bodies" - Aristotle;
"Love means to be two and not be only one. A man and a woman melt into an angel. "- Victor Hugo;
"Any love that is not based on friendship is like a house built on sand." - Ella Wilcox.
The friendship that begins between a man and a woman is like an unknown
land, may be either a minefield or soft ground, you step into the safe.
never know how that friendship can evolve, if you still like brothers,
if you will alienate each other because of certain feelings unwilling to
appear or if you find that you have for each other. In any case, you should be aware that not all men I consider friends or best friends see you as you want to do.
Be selective, formal, stepping cautiously on the road of life, and if your partner is your best friend, it is enough. Otherwise, take your friends shopping and a drink, you get the picture. Success!