Most times, we know the classic story about "best friend", the happy and unhappy cases, but to see how it goes with "best friend" or friends in general.
Most women find that the friendship between a man and a woman can not exist due to differences in mentality, the divergence, the feeling that they are misunderstood by men and then prefer to make friends with each other, thinking they are on the same frequency. Unfortunately, we know that you can not trust anyone and it's difficult to tie a lasting friendship with someone, whether it is male or female.
Why is it so difficult for a woman to tie a friendship with a man today? Because there is a bias related to sex, some well-founded, but men who are trained without hidden intentions, sincere, open and amicele who see them as sisters are reluctant to women because they wake up with surprises like "You're like a sister to me / You're my best friend, how to make love with me?" and slowly, slowly, there is a distancing between the two sides because sometimes in so-called friends can sometimes physical attraction, love and other factors.
A psychologist said, once, that there can be no friendship between a man and a woman only in exceptional cases, if both are formal, they are not alone (everyone has someone) and not harbor hidden feelings for each other. Even when you have a friend, a good friend for years, although we see formal, like a brother, without dreaming of his love, without being attracted to him, you have the guarantee that his head is nothing. A friendship with a man you will ever question whether he looks at you formally, as a sister or if you like, even if your friendship is sincere and does not imply something more. It does not hurt to pay attention to his behavior, to see if it's honest with you, but can be in love with you for years and not know, because well hide some of this fear of destroying the friendship that formed over time or other reasons.
So you have a friendship with a man, it matters how you are as people, the mentality you have, if you both to keep this line about formality, without off-route. For example, you can be friends with some of your friends life partner, if you know them both well enough to know that they would not think they have a chance with you, understand what they say. You can be friends and co-workers around whom you feel safe and if you know the character and know exactly what kind of person, but, again, you can never put hand in fire for the man with whom you have a friendship link strictly formal terms, not to want certain things.
Friendship has many meanings today. Most times, when a girl says: "He's my friend", this simple phrase can be interpreted in several ways, as well as a guy who simply presents his other pal, saying: "This is my friend" and others wonder if there's something between them. Friendship may be at a deep level even with your partner, that he, along with that you loved, and be your best friend, the man who is beside you always.
As I will show another level of friendship between a man and a woman, will give you a quotation as an example proving that friendship is associated with love:
"Friendship is one soul in two bodies" - Aristotle;
"Love means to be two and not be only one. A man and a woman melt into an angel. "- Victor Hugo;
"Any love that is not based on friendship is like a house built on sand." - Ella Wilcox.
Conclusion: The friendship that begins between a man and a woman is like an unknown land, may be either a minefield or soft ground, you step into the safe. You never know how that friendship can evolve, if you still like brothers, if you will alienate each other because of certain feelings unwilling to appear or if you find that you have for each other. In any case, you should be aware that not all men I consider friends or best friends see you as you want to do.
Be selective, formal, stepping cautiously on the road of life, and if your partner is your best friend, it is enough. Otherwise, take your friends shopping and a drink, you get the picture. Success!