By the time you were together, you and your ex boyfriend you've made lots of friends. Now, unfortunately, be separated. How do you separate, but your boyfriend without telling goodbye to all those friends?
Resist the temptation to talk about separation
There are two versions of each story - keep it
family and friends
cut, which I've had relationships before.
NEVER EVER talk bad ex-boyfriend
Just because you talk about separation not
means you can say bad things about your ex, things not related to relationship
ending. When you talk bad in front of those people who are both friends, and
his own, he put
in a delicate situation. And they
wants to be impartial and remain friends with you and your ex
Pay attention to things that reveal
How they are mutual friends, remember what you tell them they
can repeat a
discussion with the former. And this
can crumble all the progress they have made to establish friendly relationships with him.
Stay in touch
It is hard sometimes, because these friends are close
connected in mind and in your heart the former relationship. If you want to keep these people must think that they know how to deal with, so you call them or send them an e-mail to give the
understand that you want to keep them as friends. As I said above, not to disclose things that you would like to know
but tell them
as you are and what you feel to make them understand that there are still some
in your life. You say things like, "I'm doing pretty well, considering
to the situation.
It's hard to take the
but I hope I can leave everything behind and are ready to move on. "
If you already get with someone new, keep your new boyfriend away from mutual friends
There is a risk that
his friends do not agree, simply because he is the partner you
they know. This is
happens because your friends may feel that it betrays their friend / your ex boyfriend
if you like the new one. For a while, keep new boyfriend just for you. Expected to
rinse water is present before the gang.
Speaking of the gang, does not mean that you will be
Some mutual friends will not want to face dilemmas "that you invite him?" As they
feel that you have to choose between you two. Will simply invite both
and will let you done among you, thinking that as adults, everything will be fine. In a large group, everything can be good,
but a more intimate party with just
few guests, it's pretty weird and embarrassing. Avoid an unpleasant situation when you are invited to a small meeting,
directly asking if "he" comes. Do not feel bad host, but more
good for you and your ex to say no promise that you
accept other invitations you will be more people and when he comes.
Do not go in game friends who make jokes about your ex
because they do not know how much you kidding reach his ears, for the second time and he can make jokes about
Leave time to do the rest
A separation is a
broken arm. Hurts like hell and can not do anything about it once was
broke and was put in plaster, but you can expect to pass. Have to suffer pain and you
used to the changes
in your life.