A seductive look, a smile ... and the message promising the right place! How some people succeed so well to attract attention? If you've ever thought "too shy" or "can not play theater" - time to give up excuses! And you can master the art of flirting ... no words!
Here are some techniques that will triple the potential of seduction:
Get a good coach
Shelves of libraries are full of motivational psychology book that analyzes including non-verbal language. If you want to master the subject better not be afraid to call such aid. Next Sunday buy one of these books and spend hours together over coffee. You will find lots of helpful things!
It certainly happened to you to wait a few minutes less punctual and a friend to spend time contemplating the crowd around you. Without knowing, you did this for an interesting "field research".
In a bar or on a bench in the center - are places where you can see non-verbal behavior of others. Watch a man and a woman at the meeting. What gestures do? That transmit their signals?
Rate 10 nonverbal cues that you indicate that two people are in a romantic relationship. Find 10 signs the same way that you say that the two are in a state of conflict.
Relations gesture feels like? Open your eyes and look around carefully! Equally interesting are the groups of friends, strangers to change a few words or families.
You've done your homework here? Then compare things learned from books with what you have found yourself on the ground. Reinforce each other? Have your own observations about non-verbal language? Clarify things?
Once you understand the basics and main mechanisms of this form of communication will be easier to advance in the field.
Put the spotlight on you
You think you know enough? Well, if you check everything you think you know about. Ask a friend to film you during daily activities. You have the opportunity to study your posture and gestures most common.
Generally, it's pretty obvious that changes you need. Advice "coach" your print and decipher your own inceraca nonverbal language to be adjusted.
Beyond gestures, posture is very important. If you want to bring some changes fast, sign up for a dance class. The most enjoyable way to improve your coordination and body to be more aware of your body.
It is equally important as the theory! Dare! Plan an evening with your friends "to go out" and put into practice everything you learned so far. It may be that on one will change your entire life!