But to love is ... ohoooo long way. Others like to hear you say that everything starts from a smile, and loving way of being, the glitter of his eyes when you look ...
Time when we fall in love is clear. We lost all the clarity of thought and action. We are infatuated by a strong feeling and we lose control of partially or totally. As to why we make hundreds of assumptions and are least likely to know the real reason, at the subconscious level. But for now, you're in love, no matter what. The importance of living is intense and I do anything that it does not evaporate in air.
Feel "butterflies in the stomach" every time we think of the loved and the moments we spend together are not full of expectation.
Lover of classical scientific explanation comes from our instinct to perpetuate the species. We need our love to find a partner to start a family and we have one or more children. Not coincidentally, some traits are more desirable than others (for example, symmetrical features, which are seen as a sign of physical health). When you're in love appear certain neurochemical changes in the brain that give us that feeling of happiness known, but go to sleep and appetite alteration of the physical and even fatigue.
Psychiatrists say that "falling in love" is not a true love and this for three reasons. First, because falling in love is an act of will or conscious choice. As much as we wish we fall in love, we can not do it simply. On the other hand, it may very well not even watch something when we start. Most often, we fall in love in the wrong time and wrong person.
Second, falling in love is true love, because it requires effort.
Thirdly, who is "in love" is not really interested in your progress of the other. When we fall in love, the only purpose you have in mind is to put an end our loneliness and, possibly, to make sure of this result in marriage.
Experience falling in love do not focus on our progress or the other person. We give the impression that I got already. We are elated and our only wish is that things stay that way. Sure loved should not longer change in any way, that is simply perfect and we hope to remain perfect.
State of love is certainly a transient state. Depending on the reaction of the person you fell in love relationship can move forward or remain only a memory.
If the person that you love responding positively to your desire to develop close and honest communication naturally, based on spiritual affinity and common aspirations can be born a friendship / love true.
State of love or love at first sight not always lead to true love! Ideally, you love both with heart and mind and so I avoid disappointments.
Sociologists say that we fall in love because we are social animals, we can not feel fulfilled than in the company of peers. Because of this and look, cause feelings of love. We fall in love because sometimes we like to feel weak, to let you raise the bottom shield to protect us picture, assets, interests. We fall in love because we feel like we do not have any interest in respect of the other person.
According to the sociological theories of the expansion of self love those who do not fall in love are people who have a low confidence in themselves. These unseen nothing special about yourself ... do not believe that others tell the truth when you send signals that are interested.
Another interesting conclusion drawn from the above theory is that you most likely to fall in love when the situation is such that to be made to overcome you or test your limits.
It's a mystery how we fall in love, of who we fall in love, why we fall in love, but still do ...